Change is Inevitable

We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.” Maya Angelou

A woman works hard, never taking time to celebrate her accomplishments and success. We move through life like a wind on a late fall day, never taking time to take up the scenery or never taking time to enjoy our rewards from everyday lifes’ hassle. We cook, we clean, we make sure the kids are off to school. And let’s not get on the 9-5 that we hustle and flow on a regular. Women we are way too unappreciated and it’s at a point where we have forgotten to appreciate ourselves. When it’s late at night before you lay your head down look in the mirror and say “self, job well done”

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How is your mental health?

We suffer from mental health issues in silence. Afraid of reaching out for help, thinking you may be labeled. There are so many mental stressors that affect us in our everyday life (i.e work, school, kids, family). It’s okay to allow yourself a day off as a stress reliever. If we are not mentally stable we come apart at the seams of our normal routine. Help is always a good thing to ask for, it is not as negative of a perception as people might think. Stay sane and maintain! What’s your thoughts on Mental Health? Let’s talk!

Do Black women possess a special magic?

The most disrespected person in America is the black woman.
The most unprotected person in America is the black woman.
The most neglected person in America is the black woman.

-Malcolm X, 1962

Even today this rings true. We must be confident in our path and take back our magic that has been swept from under our nose. Its nice to have a special person that will protect you, but we must learn to protect ourselves or we’re sitting ducks. We walk around with the potential to soar like an eagle, but with the fetal mind of a chicken. Break free and soar bold EAGLE! Bring people in your space with your winning personality and unique diffrences, don’t feel that you must be accepted in seperate space to exist. Accept you when no one else does, because your best starts with you.

The Young Black Women in College

capture_2018-10-12-01-01-581Women have always surpassed men on an educational level, but black women have mastered it. The biggest problem is the follow through rate (ie. graduation). So its seems that the black Women is failing and latinos, Asians, White and other races are surpassing us.

Black women will more than likely face two forms of oppression during their college experience: racism and sexism. All while managing their time, school work and/or relationship.

Have you ever been in a room and actually relized you are the ONLY black person in the room. Thats how it is for a black woman at a PWI (Predominate white Institution). She was invited to the same school just as everyone else, but there is the feeling of being an outsider and looked at as if you are invisible.

What are your thoughts? What are some good pointers our young black women can take with them while in college at an HBCU or PWI? Lets Talk!